Love & Money: How to Merge Your Finances

Partnering up or getting married?  How to get your money in order when you marry and merge your finances as a married couple

The last vestige of single life isn’t living alone, it’s having your own finances. Most of us have had roommates at some point. But unless you’re married or engaged, you probably haven’t had to share a bank account.  Money is one of the top reasons people get divorced, and talking about it can lead to

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Why I Would Not Recommend EHarmony To A Friend..Or Anyone.

Why I hate eHarmony

I like to consider myself pretty savvy with my purchases, and I’m pretty savvy with the internet too- I’m a blogger and I do social media management for a living, but everything about my experience with eHarmony, the company, has been a total bust. Now, the fellas I met through eHarmony were just fine.  That’s

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On Love, Loss, Breakups & Divorce. A Personal Letter After Calling Off A Wedding

The Virtual Pug Run

I stumbled upon an article after seeing it mentioned on George Takei’s Facebook page (which I tell you, is a treasure trove of both hilarious and heartwarming posts which is worth giving a “like” to.) and upon reading it, I was moved to tears.  The post was titled, “An Open Letter to My Ex-Husband’s New

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Frugal Valentines Day Ideas For Single People (Vday Isn’t Just For Couples!)

Valentines Day Ideas For Single People 4

  Valentine’s Day usually makes people groan whether they’re in a relationship or not.  Though, I’ll be honest, when you’re single on Valentine’s Day it’s even more annoying.  I come from the school of thought that Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be relegated to the obnoxiously bright red aisles of the drug store intended to

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Love and Money: Are You Training People To Treat You Poorly?


  How are you training people to treat you? Just a thought to keep through the week-  if you’re struggling with a relationship in your life, perhaps a frustrating boss, an ex-boyfriend who won’t leave you alone or a friend who seems to be orbiting her on planet, recognize your role in your relationships. We

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